cont from last week( https://thevel.wordpress.com/2018/06/16/pen-droplets/)
The times you are alone in a room or even walking on this lonely path, not lonelylonely! Because there people who are strangers to you, then remembering that funny friend of yours makes you smile or even better you laugh. Even though they may think, this is a new mad person in the village, that is the best moment of your life; we are never alone even in solitude ,recalling people who knew your value and made sense out of this confusing world is a way of conversing with them.
I remember that time, I just befriended because I was afraid of being alone. This did not work out, maybe friends should come naturally. They don’t come because of what we have , if so, then simply they love what they lack.
So I was calling old friends the other day,
I was connecting dots on the wall of memories, dots that once were a full picture called friends.
I took my old phonebook, refreshed the contacts, wiped what I can call dust.This was intentionally, for them to relate to our old good. I dialled atleast every old friend, I mean the friends that my memory still touches.
There are those I never needed introduction ,they became relatives of my voice and were like “I have missed you” those I introduced myself and were like long time besty!Those with short stories.
Those with long stories with duplicates, they are able of asking you a question and answering it. Some are historians by nature, they only talk about the past.Those who just ignored my signal; they don’t take strange numbers and those who true called against my number.
Many of my girlfriend’s voices were still the same , I got to understand that only people’s hearts are broken!
I know some relationships don’t hold no more for various reasons, for instance you made promises that now seem impossible to keep. Maybe beautiful ones have been born and you nolonger need your old lover or we related only because we were relatives of the situation because I now call after three years and the stories do not fit our state.
Some relationships are very short because the partner’s goal sometimes is achieved faster than normally, note this-when you meet someone or interact, they are full of mystery that you want to discover every minute, you will want to know how many seconds one takes between inhaling and exhaling. After sometime everything about the person becomes normal and you nolonger find the person as magic.
Whatever the reaction you guys are great!!!
Next week: This will be out this world!
Being in my primary school ” Lugz” was never a seasonal thing. The lessons and the memories I still hold inspire…If this comes your way ,I don’t forget friends, that is me!